marikuana, m'lord

literallyaflame:

not to hop in on the Hottest Discourse but:

age gaps aren’t inherently bad between adults, but they are incredibly suspect in instances where one party has significantly more agency and experience due to their age. a thirty year old dating a forty year old, for instance, isn’t all that big a deal. but an eighteen year old should be VERY suspicious of a thirty year old wanting to get with them. they’ve had twelve years to establish themselves as an adult. an eighteen year old has had maybe a few months to do so.

i’m saying this as a person who briefly dated a thirty year old at age 19 (it wasn’t good lol), and also as a person with happily married parents who have a 12 year age gap. the difference is that my mom was in her thirties when she met my dad; she’d had plenty of time to find a career and a name for herself in the world.

stay safe, love urself, try to make good decisions but don’t beat yourself up if you’ve ever been the victim of an unbalanced or abusive relationship

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Hey y’all! My friend Peter is raising money for his transition and we both would really appreciate it if you could help out in some way! Even if you’re unable to donate, it’d be really sweet if you could pass this around to anyone that could potentially do so! 

Peter’s tweet (if you could RT that as well that’d be great!)

Peter’s PayPal

Thank you for your time!